So we have this problem with Bobby. He likes to sit at the table and not eat. When we have dinner he will just sit there and stare at his food. It is not even that he doesn't want to eat, he just wants help doing it. However, we tell him, "You are four now Bobby, I think you can pick up your fork and eat dinner by yourself." This of course leads to crying and sobs of "no I can't, it won't stay on my fork! Can I have a spoon too?" The last several meals of course have led to Bobby sitting at the table after everyone else has finished. If you feed him he will eat every bite and ask for more. But, alas, I think he is old enough that I shouldn't have to feed him every bite. So the other day he is sitting at the table whining that he needs help as usual. We all finish or meal and me and Mac go into the front room and talk for a while. Well pretty soon the kitchen grows quiet and I don't hear Bobby's protests. So I go in to check on him assuming that he has just gotten up from the table.
Well much to my surprise he had not gotten up from the table but he was certainly not going to be finishing this meal any time soon.

I suppose that is one way to get out of finishing dinner. Of course (Nana you would be proud) I made him eat it for breakfast.
He can definitely be stubborn sometimes. The other night I jumped in the shower before going to bed and Mac put the kids to bed for me. Well Bobby told Mac, "Dad, don't turn off my light. Mom will do it when she tucks me in." He kept asking "When is mom coming up?" Mac told him it would be in a few minutes and asked if he wanted him to tuck him in. "Nope, dad. I want mom to do it." So I go upstairs and Mac tells me that
my son, mind you my son, is waiting for
me to tuck him in. Stubborn or not, he was really tired and this is what I found.

I laid him in a more comfortable position, pulled the covers up and turned off the light. He then muttered "you forgot to do tuck tuck toes" which we do every night. Even asleep he is as stubborn as his father but I can't help but love him!